How to make your dreams come true

How to fulfill the dreams and goals

Welcome all readers, today I would like to tell you about something completely different. It will not be about an excursion, a nice party, no birds, no landscape or a beautiful sunset. But I will tell you about happiness and making your dreams come true. As some people knowing me personally, or through Facebook or other websites, I am the soul of a traveler, curious and interested in almost everything, meeting new people, new cultures of different nations or communities, cooking, constructing strange inventions, psychology, electronics... I could list for hours like that. One thing is common for all these qualities, dreams - passion and realization. Someone would say, after all, everyone dreams about something, everyone wants to achieve something, everyone wants to experience something, something...nothing special... I agree with that, but there is one "but"... Not everyone realizes their dreams. There are many reasons for this, starting from the fear of the unknown, low self-esteem, lack of motivation and ... You know yourself what usually stops you from realizing them.

That' s  the idea for today's article  was born. I will try to tell you some secrets of successful realization of your dreams.

It's the only dream...

It's the only dream I have, please, come true... How many times have you said that to yourself? With every new moment new dreams come into our minds, new goals, new directions where we would like to be in the near future. How much would we give to make our dream come true. Well, how much would you give ? or rather, how much would you do to really make your dream come true ? There are no excuses, because we are the only ones responsible for making them come true. 

Are you optimistic person ? or rather pessimistic ?

Well, that's the question, are you optimistic about your dream ? Do you think that if you are pessimistic, you will be able to achieve your desired dream ? "You think that with such an attitude, fate will help you to make your dreams come true ? That's what they say - that a lucky man and a lucky one is always the one who is always on the hill. There is something about that ... don't you think so ?

Don't wish others bad luck

That's the important thing. I'm talking about those who dream of someone breaking a leg, driving into a tree, so that something bad could happen to others... and so on. I'm not going to talk about it here, everyone knows exactly what's behind all this. Besides, we also know well from the old Polish proverb - "who digs holes under someone, he will fall in to that hole".  So it is better to let go of this kind of dreams, anyway, can we call it a dream ? or rather a wish of someone bad luck ? So please think carefully and define your dream. Let's think whether it will be good for us ? whether nobody will suffer because of our EGO, whether we will still feel happy ? 

So what do you do to make your dream come true?

Do you remember, or rather, do you know a story where, during the great flood, there was one guy who was waiting and dreaming, on the roof of one of the flooded buildings, that Jesus would save him ? When he drowned, he asked the Lord Jesus - why didn't you come to save me ? Jesus answered, I sent for you a lifeboat, then a helicopter, you did not use anything ... Why am I telling this story ? to show you that everything counts in making your dreams come true. You will not become a great pilot if you do not start to be interested in this subject, you will not go to a piloting course, you will not start to surround yourself with the company of pilots, you will not start reading books on this subject, you will not start imagining yourself as a pilot ... and so on. Use all possible resources available to you to improve your knowledge and passion for your dream. You will not get the highest mark on the exam, for which you have learned nothing. 

How to do it ?

I think that real dreams are those connected with our passion. You will not explore the world without leaving home, you will not become a pilot, you will not learn a foreign language without being passionate about it. You can not say that my dream is unreachable, or that my dream is difficult and uninteresting ... it is more a punishment than a dream, you agree with me ? 

So where to start making our dreams come true ? Let's choose at the very beginning,  the most imported one dream, without which you can't survive, which is spinning in your head, which is on the top of every story you tell, which you share with everyone, even those who no longer have the strength to listen to you. This is how our road to its realization begins, this is how the dream becomes our passion. It is this passion that leads us to start searching for news related to it, we start reading, watching movies. Talk about it with everyone, take an interest in everything connected with it. That's how we start to make our whole surroundings to spin around  to fulfill this one dream. It may seem strange or funny to you. But believe me, it is. And there is no way that such a dream will not come true. Yes, there is a right time and place for everything.

It should be mentioned here that our world in which we live has a place for all events, but everything has its specific time. There are no two presidents at the same time, but they both have their own fixed periods of cadence. So let's not lose hope, let's not get impatient, let's be positive. Imagine yourself in the way your dream is fulfilled, get to know the feelings connected with this fact, experience them all the time, learn to live with them, feel how this dream would come true, enjoy it, enjoy these feelings. Get to know yourself as the one who achieved his goal, reached the realization of his dream. Use all the available possibilities, and look for a way that will help you to achieve it. Look around if you need more money to make your dream come true, stop spending unnecessarily on fulfilling your other whims, start saving, or look around for better paid work. There are so many ways, so many ways to make your dream come true that it is impossible to even write them all down here. One thing is for sure and I guarantee that if really your dream is your passion and with all your strength you are trying to make it come true, it will come true. I don't want to mention all these miraculous healings, miraculous coincidences, unexpected turns of events and so on. You have read about it yourself many times and wondered how it is even possible. 

Dream - passion - realization

The dream is about passion, you will not become a President if you are not interested in politics, but your passion is football, but you can become a good footballer known all over the world. Through passion we will always find a way to make our dream come true. We also cannot forget to share our passions and dreams with others. The more people get to know our dreams, the greater the chance that someone will help us, inspire us, provide an interesting article, or help you with the realization of this dream. 

I once met a boy who really wanted and dreamed about learning to play the piano. I met him many times living in London. It was such a small center for children with difficulties at home. This boy couldn't talk about anything but how it would be if he could learn to play this instrument. He knew all the notes, he could sing the whole range, he knew in theory practically everything needed to start learning. One day when I came to visit him, I saw a piece of paper in front of him with a drawn piano keyboard and he was so absorbed in his imaginary playing that it took him a long time to realize that he was not alone. He inspired me to make his dream come true. Together with a few friends we went to buy a small piano for him to practice and develop his passion. After a few years, he got into music school with the help of his caregivers and other helpful people. Today you can sometimes hear him play in a few London clubs, and at King's Kross subway station. 

My colleague Tomasz, who dreamt of traveling, wanted to explore the world. However, as we know, to visit the world it takes an enormous amount of money. He was looking for a lot of money... and found such a group of people who not only visit the world but also earn money on it. He shares his passion in all directions encouraging people to fulfill their dreams. It is nice to look at his laughing eyes, self-confidence, his plans where and when he goes. His enthusiasm and commitment.

So in conclusion, let's ask ourselves, how much have we done to make our dreams come true? How much does it mean to us ? how committed are we to its realization ? How great is our passion ?

I will be really pleased if you comment on where you have made your dream come true, or you have been the witness of such unexpected fulfillment. 

Thank you, dear, that you are here, you take your precious time to read this post. Thanks to you my dream comes true :) Thank you very much for that.

In the next post I'd like to raise the topic of emotions, if you have any questions, suggestions, problems in understanding the mechanism that drives our decisions, I ask you to share them in section comments.

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